What They Say Isn't Always What They Mean

I read an article entitled "She says "Back Off Mom!" She Means "I Need You." Dr. Nancy Snyderman, who is in late 40's and rasing two teenage daughters, talks about the struggles and perils of teenage life. She not only describes their turmoil, but hers as well. Moments with her daughters lead to flashbacks of her own childhood. Her mother was so young compared to her. Dr. Nancy would have never thought for a moment …

…part of all of this is keeping children close but trusting them enough to let them choose their own way. Dreams differ just as individuals so. As teenagers accept more and more responsibility and define their own interests and goals, mothers need to both guide and listen. The day that you don't see your own reflection in the mirror is the day you have succeeded. Your daughter's own unique and wonderful reflection is very clear.